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Steps for Gaining Wisdom

wisdomMany of us go through life hoping to become wiser as we get older, but there is much more to wisdom than just age and intelligence. Wisdom requires us to use our experiences to help us form sound and reasonable judgments, and we can take some excellent advice from the leaders around us who are considered to be truly wise.

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You don’t have to wait until you are older or smarter to be wise, and you don’t need to have a great deal of life experience under your belt. Your level of wisdom has nothing to do with your age, which means that a 20-year-old college student can be just as wise as someone who is 80 years old. Rather than waiting for life to teach you lessons through a number of experiences, start applying the lessons you have already learned. As you live each day, reflect on what you have done in the past and how the outcome has affected your life. You can then use those reflections to help you draw sound and sensible conclusions.

Embrace Different Perspectives

Wise people are able to analyze situations from different points of view rather than focusing on a single perspective. For example, a wise person who has been asked for advice will consider social influences, cultural differences and an individual’s life history before offering their opinions. They are also able to look at opposing perspectives and take both positions into account as they are forming views about disagreements. By carefully considering individual factors and each viewpoint when you are asked for your opinion, you will be able to help others better understand their own perspectives and how they should address their problems.

Incorporate Common Good and Self-Interest

Wisdom embraces a balance of common good and self-interest, which means that a wise person will help others while also accomplishing their own goals. In order to be wise, you must set aside your focus on your personal desires so that you can benefit others. However, you must also find success and joy in what you do each day. You must blend your own personal goals with your desire to make the world a better place.

Wisdom is not something that is automatically granted as you get older, but these strategies will help you apply the lessons you have learned during your life to help you make wise decisions each day. You may even find that your life begins to hold more value and significance.